So you've been together with your romantic partner for a while now, but how do you know whether or not you're falling in love? In the initial stage of dating, it might be hard to pinpoint what your heart is telling you and you may have a surge of mixed intense feelings all at once. You might be unsure of whether or not it's merely physical attraction, infatuation or the real deal. Moreover you may be wondering what your partner thinks of you and if they've given any thought towards developing your relationship even further. How do you fully decipher your emotions? How do you fully decipher your emotions? Here are 10 signs to tell if you're falling in love: 1) You find yourself trying new things When people fall in love they often step out of their comfort zone and engage in activities or interest their partner favors. You find yourself curious to learn more about them. So you begin to participate in their hobbies or eat their favorite foods. This in turn also h...
Hello Friends...!!! there was a man who used to earn money by selling different colors balloon daily whenever his sale used to go down, he leave some balloon in the sky and children used to get excited after seeing that balloon in the sky and they immediately used to visit that man to buy one such balloon Because of which his sale used to grow once again one day a boy asked him that if he will leave a BLACK color balloon in the sky, will it flew? that man smiled at that boy and said it's not the color of the balloon but it is whats inside that makes it go up this same principles are applied to our life also our ability, attitude and motivation always help us to move ahead in life Ability teach us that How We DO Motivation teach us that Why We Do but its our Attitude that decide How Well We DO YOUR ATTITUDE CONTRIBUTES TO SUCCESS We all know the power of POSITIVE THINKING but very few people understand the power of NEGATIVE THINKING Yes...this both thing are powerful but in opposite way Positive thinking encourage a person to touch new heights of success on the other hand, Negative thinking is the reason behind self destruction.
Example- Once in a village, there came a very big Monster and everyone in the village was having fear about that monster a child the village people that why they don't killed that monster? village people said that can't he see? How huge it is... the child saidNo...He is just big to miss that child threw a big stone on that monster head and killed him MoralOne Giant but different Perception our attitude decide that how we face the problem for example for positive thinking people, problem is like a big opportunity for them.
whereas for a negative thinking people, problem is like a big obstacle for them In my earlier video I had explained you that every problem bring an opportunity along with it FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE Attitude start forming in us from the childhood itself there are 3 E's factor that largely determine our attitude formation First is ENVIRONMENT Environment consists of many things like environment at home, school environment, office environment or political environment all different types of environment creates a culture.
Example - you went to a shop and got a very good service there you went to another shop but there you were treated very badly the reason behind this is different culture culture determine our environment which indirectly decides our attitude Second is EXPERIENCE a positive experience with a person attracts us towards them while negative experience keep us away from them.
Experience or events acts as guidelines for future Example you teach your children that telling lie is a bad habit on the other side, you speak like on phone just to make an excuse at this stage children get confused between what they learned and what they experienced and ultimately they decide their conclusion on the basis of their experienced Third is EDUCATION it refers to both formal and informal education we convert our education into knowledge, experience and wisdom in form of attitude.
which transform it into success there are many benefits of Positive Attitude like...you get a meaning for your life you start inspiring yourself and others also there is an increase in business and profit you solve many problems by taking a positive decision In short it reduces stress and improves quality on the other side, there are many consequences of negative attitude negative thinking people lives a purposeless life neither they are satisfied with anything whether it is friendship, job, marriage or relationship moreover the level of frustration, rudeness and stress increase continuously in their life many time.
they want to remove such thing from their life but their negative attitude resist them from doing so example a man was sentenced 15 years of imprisonment after completing 15 years in jail, he was free to go but he started feeling uncomfortable within few hours after leaving the jail because he had adapted the habit of living in jail that's why he committed one more big crime again so that he can live in jail forever sometime we become so comfortable with our negativity that we don't change despite of knowing that its good for us STEP TO GAIN POSITIVE ATTITUDE 1)
CHANGE FOCUS, LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE many time people always find that thing that they are looking for that's why we should search positive instead of negative in others ANDREW CARNEGIE was the richest man in USA and one of the largest steel manufacturer in the world having a net worth of 310 billion dollars once he was asked that how he deal with people Andrew said that dealing with people is like searching for gold.
we have to separate dust and mud while searching for gold Similarly, while searching for positive thing in a person, first we have to avoid negative thing about that person ANDREW CARNEGIE message was clear that change focus and look for the positive 2)MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW I have procrastinated many thing in life which I regret today also Procrastination leads to negative attitude which results into delay and regret.
Example- when a person is small, he think that he will be happy when he will grow when he grow and become a boy, he think that he will be happy when his studies will get over when his studies get over, he think he will be happy when he will get a job when he get the job, he think he will be happy when he will get married when he get married, he think that he will be happy after having his own family when he make his own family, he think that after retirement he will be always happy and when get retired from job, he find that time has gone and its too late now to be happy and enjoy life.
some people procrastinate by saying that they are analyzing or getting ready for the future but even after six month, they are still analyzing or getting ready if you want to develop a positive attitude then stop procrastination and make a habit of doing it now So to conclude... WINNING is like an event but being a winner is a spirit inculcate "YES YOU CAN" spirit in yourself by developing a positive attitude Always remember one thingWinners don't do different think.
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